feat(hybrid-gateway): integrate muse-cli with Cloudflare netns isolation, symmetric sidechat routing, and 646-pip sync unblock

bin/gravity.py

@@ -416,6 +416,7 @@ def reconstruct_loops(limit=50, agent=None, status_filter=None) -> list:
     # 2. Extract tracked DMs from dm-log.jsonl
     answers_map = {}  # id or ref -> answer event
     dm_events = []
+    failed_ids = set()  # DM ids that failed to send - never delivered
     if os.path.exists(DM_LOG_FILE):
         try:
             with open(DM_LOG_FILE, "r") as f:
@@ -429,7 +430,8 @@ def reconstruct_loops(limit=50, agent=None, status_filter=None) -> list:
                         msg = entry.get("msg") or ""
 
                         # Check for answers/results/acks
-                        if "[RESULT" in msg or "[ACK" in msg or "acknowledged" in msg or ev_type == "verified":
+                        # Note: "verified" means delivered, NOT answered - do not include it here
+                        if "[RESULT" in msg or "[ACK" in msg or "acknowledged" in msg:
                             sender = entry.get("agent", "")
                             # Extract referenced DM id if present
                             m_ref = re.search(r"\[ref:([a-f0-9-]+)\]", msg) or re.search(r"\[(?:ACK|RESULT)\s+([a-f0-9-]+)", msg)
@@ -438,6 +440,11 @@ def reconstruct_loops(limit=50, agent=None, status_filter=None) -> list:
                             if entry.get("id"):
                                 answers_map[entry["id"]] = entry
 
+                        # Track failed sends - these were never delivered
+                        if ev_type in ("send_failed", "failed"):
+                            if entry.get("id"):
+                                failed_ids.add(entry.get("id"))
+
                         tags = entry.get("tags") or {}
                         if tags.get("reply:expected") or "[reply:expected]" in msg:
                             dm_events.append(entry)
@@ -453,6 +460,8 @@ def reconstruct_loops(limit=50, agent=None, status_filter=None) -> list:
             continue
         if did in loops:
             continue  # Already have active record from followups.json
+        if did in failed_ids:
+            continue  # Send failed - never delivered, don't count against agent health
 
         tags = entry.get("tags") or {}
         recipient = entry.get("to") or entry.get("recipient") or ""